A friend in change is a friend indeed

During the holiday I had a very pleasant surprise. Over the last 2 years I have looked at other blogs when writing my own to get ideas and inspiration. One of the best blogs I have seen in higher education is written by Martha Graham at James Madison University. We had both left several messages on each other’s blog (which included me stupidly calling Martha “Graham” for the first couple of months!) Even though we have never had the chance to meet we have had many exchanges over the past year or so.

Martha had written an excellent article on Bob Reid, former Dean at JMU and who is now Executive Vice President and Chief Accreditation Officer AACSB. Bob and I met up at the EFMD Annual Conference 2013 in Brussels and I send Martha the photo never expecting her to publish an article on it! I am very flattered indeed by what she has said.

An article in “The Economist” this week discusses research that shows the more time people spend on Facebook the less happy they are. Like Martha, I totally agree with this. However, technology today means that we can communicate with people without ever meeting up and I have been delighted to have many exchanges with Martha. As she says, we have become friends without ever seeing each other. 

There is another positive side. In her article, Martha refers to a friendly bet that we had concerning Greenland. Because of that, I did some quick research and was lucky enough to stumble upon a wonderful blog called The Fourth Continent. This is written by a lady who has emigrated to Greenland and gives some amazing insights into life there. I have become an avid reader of her blog which is quite a unique blog and well worth a read. So even a friendly challenge with someone you have never met can have a positive effect. 

The start of the coming academic year will be a little different for me this September, so I have asked a member of my team to begin writing another blog to take up some of the themes I have explored over the past two years. “Mainly International” will begin publishing in just over a week. When my colleagues and I started talking about the layout and the themes, I first asked them to look at the one Martha writes. My basic message was that I wanted the blog to be as good as “Be the Change.” That is just how highly I regard the blog. Not only does Martha write quite beautifully, the warmth and the attachment she feels towards students, staff and other members of the JMU community is quite evident. It makes it great reading. 

So, many thanks to Martha, not only for this post but also the the inspiration you have provided me in writing over the past year or so. I am sure that you provide the same inspiration to many other as well.

James Madison University's Be the Change

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6 responses to “A friend in change is a friend indeed

  1. Thanks, Mark for this lovely read aka post! 🙂 Have a great Sunday! 🙂

  2. Mark, Once again you have made my day! (I must add that calling me “Graham” was not stupid at all but reasonable given the way I listed my name.) The blog community is rather remarkable, I’m finding, and I have loved our interaction. I have learned so much for YOUR excellent blog and look forward to learning more.

    • Mark Thomas

      That’s very kind of you. My blog might be a little different as from next week as believe it or not I will be just up the road from you (quite a long road) for a couple of months. I hope that I will have just enough time to keep writing a few posts and I will certainly try to check out “Be the Change” when time allows.

      • I hope you remember you have a standing invitation to visit! We’d love to show you JMU and Virginia’s beautiful Shenandoah Valley.

      • Mark Thomas

        I do remember and I would absolutely love to visit you on your campus. I will be studying in Boston be if I think it is feasible I will certainly try.

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